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09 August 2009 ~ View Comments

Book Review: Tell Me Why, Mummy by David Thomas

Ten Word Summary: A sexually abused kid stuggles to survive and find forgiveness.

Wow.

The only time I felt breathless while reading a book was when I read The Life of Pi, which I still consider to be one of the best books of the century. Though this time I was not short on breath from the suspence, but rather from the heartache as I read word after word. It’s definitely not a summer read, then.

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The story is an autobiography, about David’s sexually abused childhood by his mother – a raging alcoholic – and physical abuse from his stepfather. The story starts at his tender age of 4 and the book chronicles his struggle to survive well into his late 20′s and 30s.

The story in itself is a human achievement, with a very happy and overwhlemingly emotional ending. The majority of the story is a morbid moral and social struggle for David, written throught he psyche of each year of his age – from the innocence of a 4 year old, till he becomes sexually aware and understands what’s going on. His struggle with his demons transforms him from an abused child to a convicted criminal and later on, sex addict, to a Guiness holder of memory reciter (he recited up to 22,500 digits of mathematical Pi), a great family person with a successful relationship and a motivational speaker (if you’re interested in hearing the author briefly talk about his book, go here).

Bottom Line: It’s a bit difficult to read through as the topic itself is depressing, but the sense of achievement, and personal closure, towards the end of the book makes it worth picking up.




  • Reema
    I'm definitly going to read it

    have you read lovely bones?
  • dubai jazz
    Thanks for the review, KJ.

    btw, was he by any chance autistic or sufferer of asperger syndrome? I've read once, in a book written by a similar guy, that most modern day savants are autistic. It seems the disorder gives them a particular ability to store and retrieve information. Go figure.
  • Oh! The cover page can tell u everything =(
  • That does sound like a touching book although I will NOT be bringing that to my beach vacation. Need something a little lighter that won't depress me but I will place it in my books to read. Thanks and love the site - great design.
  • I'm amazed by people who could pull their lives together after such a bad childhood. I imagine the book would be too painful to read and would haunt your thoughts well after you read it.
  • jarofjuice
    kinzi -
    I know you will enjoy it :)

    7aki -
    Welcome!

    Sou -
    Some parents are sick. In this case, his mom is actually quite supportive and you really feel the love between them. When she's drunk though, she's a totally different character.
  • I know what you mean a while back I read a book talking about the same thing called A Child Called "It" by David Pelzer It was so depressing and yet so encouraging and making you feel how trivial our problems seem sometimes.
    However I could not and still can't believe that a parent would do that to their own flesh and blood. Although I try not to be shocked by how cruel we can be to each other though *Not working yet though*
  • Wow! Thanks for the review.
  • KJ, thanks for this book review, on a subject that is important to me. I look forward to finding it and reading it.
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